Pretty Bad Questions and Answers

Happy 4th!

As for Boiling Crab . . . ehhhh . . . it was okay, I wouldn't say that it was terribly bad. ... The sauce was actually pretty spicy, but it was gosh darn good!...Service wasn't too bad for us, they were pretty attentive even when we were in a corner.... more

John Cho on How Big Star Trek is, Trek Philosophy and Meeting George Takei

We filmed five or six episodes, and it was kind of heart-breaking, and it left a very bad taste in my mouth afterwards and I've avoided television since.... more

Lunch With Alan Dean Foster, Part II: The Star Trek Book

No. I have a pretty good grounding in science. Just as an amateur. ... You can’t make a bad guy a good guy, or a good guy a bad guy. You do have to follow the film.... more

http://methian.livejournal.com/1238.html

Just then his leg started to hurt badly so he popped a couple of vikoden and limped over to her " come on kid were going to see a friend of mine. ... " That's a pretty name Katie, why dont you go sit over there while I talk to house ok?... more

"If You Ever Come Back, I'll Be Here"

I miss you so much, and it hurt so bad when you told me you had a boyfriend and were moving far away. ... ” We really had a connection, and things went pretty off when he found out I was younger than he had thought.... more

Chapter 63

It was 11:00 and I was finally going to be able to go to bed, after a pretty bad day.... more

http://methian.livejournal.com/851.html

Just then his leg started to hurt badly so he popped a couple of vikoden and limped over to her " come on kid were going to see a friend of mine. ... " That's a pretty name Katie, why dont you go sit over there while I talk to house ok?... more

http://joan-nnn.blogspot.com/2009/07/ytd-had-tuition-at-2-at-my-hse.html

. . . my parents were pretty keen on another package. ... . . cos we arent exactly very rich and my parents have had way too many bad experiences when it comes to travel agencies.... more

fourth.

LG is actually a pretty place, both summer and winter time. ... spent the afternoon jetskiing on the lake :) bbq'd, then took our chances with the fireworks! not bad.... more

Fun Anime Activity

Will Number 5 and 6 ever kiss? Oh, hell no. First, neither likes long distance relationships, and since they're from different universes, that's a pretty damn long distance.... more

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...I admit it. I thought dirty things... signifies SHUT UP! >_<;;;; I love... the outfits for this world. SUITS AND GLASSES? YES PLEASE. Stripes and cute? SO YES. The striped socks are just so very Oz Natsumi, I approve. I love how Natsumi and Yuusuke are like '...zomg, it's so F*ING HOT and we're h ... more

San Francisco

I'm gonna actually write everything that happened yesterday because 1) It'll make me feel better about my crappy July 4th and 2) It's worth remembering forever. I got to his house at around 2:30. He came outside and hugged me for a while. We used his mom's car. While driving, it was quiet. Not that ... more

So, anyway...

Yeah, after we came down Fuji we quickly changed into dry clothing and grabbed the first bus down the mountain...to the Fuji View Hotel. If you saw the pictures, you saw the crazy lush grounds it sits on. That was nice. :) Even better? No actual view of Fuji...though I did give it the two-fingered s ... more

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one week down. which means, 2 weeks to orals, 4 to geog pt submission, 7 to ss pt submission and EYAs then too. Then comes the sept hols which will be pure mugging, and then comes the rest of EYAS and then it'll be all over, (or so it seems at least) then comes checking of papers, and maths EYA ( am ... more

Camper Road Trip 7-4

Happy Independence Day! I hope everyone had a great day with their families and friends! It was in the low 90’s here, sunny and a teeny breeze. I have been inside most of the day doing laundry and getting caught up on “stuff” since getting back from our five day road trip. I am going to try this a l ... more

Finished Pillow

I dunno if I wrote about this before, but I found a unicorn pillow on craigslist, (the seller was trying to get rid of her couch and said she'd throw in the pillow. -I just asked for the pillow.) Anyway I couldn't tell from the picture, but the pillow was in pretty bad shape. I was reluctant to touc ... more

Bleach fan fiction: “The shattered reflections” written for chapter 364 (100 prompts- cold)

As my previous entry shows, I got very excited due to what happened in chapter 364 and I just feel that I have to somehow write a story about it, and this the result. Title: The shattered reflections Summary: Spoiler for bleach 364- the final page. Examines how the Vizard changed from who they were ... more

fourth.

Originally uploaded by christina lauryn the year on the 4th, i was technically homeless and staying with friends around the city for a couple of weeks. I spent the 4th with my friend chirstopher in Lake Geneva, Wisconsic. LG is actually a pretty place, both summer and winter time. It's where a lot o ... more

Friends, Family and Fireworks (of sorts)

Celebrating our nation's birthday was simple. Put on our flag shirts, go to church, sing most of the patriotic songs in the Hymnal, go visit a friend in the hospital, go have lunch, then do a cookout for some of the family. And watch fireworks on TV, because the parents are not really up to getting ... more

Brilliant Day.

Okay so maybe I didn't go see any fireworks today but... I did watch FernGully. Then All Dogs Go To Heaven. Then Treasure Planet. Then Repo! The Genetic Opera. And now one of those new James Bond movies is on TV... not really my idea of extremely epic but it's not bad. For my only day off this week, ... more

hand/eye/mind/mouth: Hand: "Buffy the Vampire Slayer" Quote Cross Stitch

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functional handmade pottery | Soup Studios Pottery Athens Georgia

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"Coreographed" Late Night Special

High school boys take pride in humping inanimate objects in a dance "coreographed" to Pretty Ricky's late night special more

a bad man with a pretty girl

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Pretty Bad Questions and Answers



Open Question: Benefit Boi-ing vs. Erase Paste?

I have pretty bad dark circles & I'm looking for a new concealer. I've been hearing some mixed reviews about Benefit erase paste & boi-ing. Has anyone tried erase paste or boi-ing & would you recommend it? Thanks =] x Also do you have any recommendations for any other good undereye concealers? (as long as it's not YSL touch eclait as I'm not really able to afford it at the moment) Sorry lol I meant YSL touche eclat. Oh yeah I also kept forgetting to add...can they be available in the UK as well? Thanks =]  more

Open Question: tell me what to do please?

I don't want to live anymore, I hate my family, especially my sister. Depression runs in the family and I don't want it o it'd be so much better if I was dead anyway. I chat up older men online because it makes me feel pretty and wanted. I can't get rid of my bad memories, I can't even drink them away even though I would love to just to be drunk enough to not feel a thing. I feel guilty for existing and being who I am but I can't change. I hide behind lies with my friends I can't talk to anyone because 2 years ago was the first time I have ever had real friends and I can't lose them. I refuse to talk to my family because we don't talk about things like that. Also pride is a factor, there are 2 people in my family who haven't needed anger management or councelling, I am one of them (there are 6 of us). School is when I'm away from the hell but even then I get stressed because they give us test after test and I can't revise, Sometimes I cry mysef to sleep thinking about how I could kill myself (at the moment it's overdosing on sleeping pills) but then I'd be a coward but I just want out. Humanity is bound to fail because it envolves people, and I'm a peron, it'd work better without me Please stop this all, or tell me how to My local doctor told me to basically get over it. and my mum would have to take me and i cant talk to her  more

Open Question: I have writers block so bad... what should i put next? also, is this any good 4 a 1st draft?

“You’re so lucky to have wings, Raphy.” I sighed looking over my shoulder at the tall male figure standing behind me. I spread out my arms and flapped them up and down as if they could somehow magically turn into bright, pure angel wings like Raphael’s. When I was that age, about five or six, that was all I wanted. I didn’t care about my world crumbling away every passing second; I just cared about the fact I wanted to be just like him, to be one of his kind -whatever that was- to be able to soar across the sky and look down on the entire world below, not caring about anything. This evening was simply perfect. It was warm, but not too hot, the sun was just setting and I was on the beach with my favourite person in the world. This was the closest to heaven I’d ever get without my wings. “There’s no use having wings and not being able to fly, kid.” Raphael said with a sigh as the ocean breeze swept through his sandy blonde hair. I looked at him as he gazed out at the amber sky that reflected in the sea, his dark, wide steel blue-grey eyes focusing on nothing else. Raphael was easily the most beautiful thing I’d ever seen; even now I’m still trying to find something half as stunning as him. His face was pale and angelic, so much that he didn’t look real; he was like a Greek statue carved to perfection. Then of course, you had his body. Raphael was pretty tall and he had more than his fair share of muscles yet he was surprisingly slender and lithe and, of course, his wings were beyond breath-taking. They were just like how I imagined fallen angel wings, they were a black that made even the night sky look like day but the tips of the feathers were a stunning blood-red. “But you can fly, Raphy, I know you can!” I said turning around to face him fully. I’d never seen him fly, but I knew he could do it. He had the heart of a phoenix, or so he said. He also had the power over fire and had supposedly been reborn hundreds of times straight from the ashes he’d created. That always made me wonder about how old he really was, he didn’t look a day over twenty but he’d always looked that way ever since the day he found me. He laughed dryly, “I wish I could... I really do... especially with a war like this brewing.” he murmured raising his head to the over-cast evening sky. I wished I knew what he was thinking at that moment, I still do. Raphael thought so much and talked so little, the opposite of me, but that just added to his divinity and the proud father image he tried to portray. I always had known Raphael wasn’t my real dad and he’d literally just found me one day, but I didn’t care. He was the only family I’d ever known. I guess that’s why it tore me apart so much when I woke up and he wasn't there. “You’re always so dramatic, Raphy.” I said laughing, completely ignoring his comment on ‘war’. I’m not sure why I did that, I really do regret not questioning him further. Raphael smiled and looked down at me and his dark, almost life-less, eyes started to sparkle like stars, for no apparent reason. It was a scarily beautiful sight. “You know what, kid” he said after a long pause, “I’m going to learn to fly tonight.” My eyes grew and so did my toothy smile. Raphael was finally going to fly! “Can you teach me when you’ve learned?” I asked hopefully cupping my small hands together. “Sure, kid.” Raphael replied. I laughed as he bent down to hug me. That was the end of a perfect evening. The last evening I ever spent with Raphael. I’d never found out what had happened to him or where he went. Did he ever manage to fly? Did he kill himself in the process? There were so many unanswered questions and if that didn’t add to the problems, an incredible war started exactly a week after he left, a war I found myself right in the middle of. 1 “Come on Aria, get up!” “I don’t wanna...” I moaned turning back onto my side. It was safe to say I wasn’t a morning person and today was no exception. In fact, today was the tenth year anniversary of Raphael’s ‘disappearance’ and I had partially started to doubt he’d even existed. I mean, people with wings? Come on, that sort of thing was physically impossible. I actually didn’t really have any real memory of him, but I did keep dreaming of a pure, beautiful, angelic man who had literally ‘taken me under his wing’ and after those dreams, I’d remember everything about him again, his voice, his personality, his stature, his fatherly features if only it was for a split second. But as soon as I’d remembered him, the memory faded within seconds until the next morning. It was so strange. “Who cares if you wanna? You have to. Come on, Aria we’re in a war here.” Grey replied shaking me slightly. Grey was one of the many orphans like me who were practically soldiers fighting in a war we knew nothing about, but he tried the hardest to fight in this war and win it, hence why he found himself nominated the leader of our grou group in Unit. Grey had ironically beautiful wide gray eyes and pretty long grey-white hair which he tied up into a small pony-tail with the same colour stubble to match. He had his fair share of muscle and fighting skills and was a natural born leader. He was also, most importantly, my first and only crush. “So?” I murmured batting him away. Grey sighed. “You’re the only one not awake you know.” “I don’t care.” I replied pulling my blanket over my head. It was dreary and faded, as was everything else I’d ever known. Grey sighed again. “Why are you being so difficult?” *it's supposed 2 be individual group*  more

Open Question: further problems with the ex?

I work with my ex. We really liked each other, but i just wouldn't 'put out' until we were completely official, he ended it the week after i refused to go upstairs with him. Now he's with someone else. I work with them both. He's got a reputation for being a sleaze since me. She still likes him. Eurrrrgh, I just don't know what to think. I've never really liked the girl, find her very arrogant, plus she did the same thing to my friend so I had a bad impression of her. But I am being normal with the girl because I don't want to look like an idiot - i have no real reason to be p-issed so. But i feel like rubbish, she's so pretty and nice and everyone loves her. Can imagine his friends saying 'oh she's way better than that other girl' Help?  more

Open Question: DOes megan fox have a bad personality?

i think shes really pretty, i know loads of ppl disagree but anyways..i used to watch her in hope and faith, where she used to lookr eally innoccent and sweet, but lately loads of ppl are saying that shes got an awful personality- is this true.. and how do you know?? Im not annoyed im curious lol.  more

Open Question: Is this a bad look for going out?

When girls wear those three quarter leggings with a t shirt (reaching past your bum or not), it's the 'in' look right now but I was just wondering if it was kind of slutty or anything. I like wearing this kind of outfit because it's so comfy but I was just wondering if it was an unappealing look especially because I plan on going out later dressed like this. I've got a decent bum and pretty good legs(that's just what I've been told) if that makes a difference.  more

Open Question: Help on creating a strong appeal for a place in a high school?

I recently applied to go to a different high school for when I start year 10. Unfortunately, I didn't get accepted because the 'planned admission number had been reached' - that'ss the only reason. Now let me explain my situation; I currently go to a well, crap, school Half of the teachers can't control the kids - the other half might as well hate them It's the lowest performing school in the county -the school I'm applying for is one of the top state schools in the county. I'm not meaning to blow my own trumpet here, but I'm pretty talented - 'Gifted and Talented' in Maths, French/Languages and Science. I've been told I'd be entered for A level English a year early and I also study Latin. I'm one of the best in the year in PE, Cooking and Textiles. I've represented my county several times and one of the best sprinters (for my age group) in my county. It's not surprising the standards are low in my school though - it's full of chavs, emos and wannabes and about 2 thirds of the year group smoke and drink. I mean fine let them do that, but they get away with sitting smoking at lunch time. People are always texting etc in lessons. Yesterday for example, I was in maths (top set maths group) and half the lesson had passed before the head of department noticed we had no teacher - before that everyone had been throwing paper planes around the class and shouting like complete idiots. Teachers aren't exactly great either, there's a dyslexic teacher who cant spell, they insist on making a point on how much it's costing to enter us into an exam (it's not like we want to be there!) and they insult us. I've been in classes where the teacher's told us that we have bad parent and haven't been raised properly, and that we belong in a special needs school. Any help on creating a strong appeal, that will hopefully get me out of this prison is muchly appreciated. Thanks. Also if you've appealed for a school before and been successful, I would appreciate it if you could tell me what you did. Btw, I'm aware that it will be one of my parents who will be speaking in the appeal - not me.  more

Open Question: Help! i want her back but don't know what to do!?

I recently did a bad thing, which caused my partner, who is also one of my best friends to stop talking to me. We had been together for 5 months and I was pretty sure we were falling in love. Although we haven't been going out long, i have been her best friend for a while. For 3 days after what happened, she didn’t talk to me. This was one of the worst periods of my life, because I really missed talking to her and love her. Now don’t get me wrong I have not cheated on her or anything like than but what I have done has caused her to stop trusting me. As I keep trying to say to her I am not a bad person, I have just done a bad thing. Now we’re talking a little she said that she wants us just to be friends, because she realised that our friendship is not worth loosing on a relationship. And although I want to be friends with her I’d much rather be her boyfriend. The catch is we live 100 miles apart, but live near each other in term time when at university. So going to see her takes alot of preparation, which i am willing to put in, but she's trying to avoid seeing me, despite telling me she misses me. I understand that I have done wrong but was wondering if trust can be regained? I really like this girl and really feel like she could be ‘the one’ and I’d do anything to get her back. What should I do?? Because we lived so far away i was getting paranoid she was cheating on me, because the majority of her friends are guys. I logged on to her emails and read them on a couple of occasions. I know it was wrong, i just didn't want to be led on. thanks  more

Open Question: Can someone tell me if this is serious?

Hi guys, I've been having a few too many health problems this last week, Here let me make do this in a list Sunday : An abscess I had a while ago, I noticed had come back, It started to hurt my tooth. Monday : The abscess got a whole lot worse and did what it did last time... Balloon my face up, I went to the dentist, He said its the nastiest thing an abscess has caused since starting his job (must be pretty bad huh) Got 2 lots of antibiotics (200mg Metronidazole + 250mg of Amoxicillin) to be taken 3 times a day regular intervals Tuesday: Day 2 of taking my antibiotics, I could see they have started to do their job, Last thing at night I have a pic of my abscess (view here: ) Also on this day, I become really quite ill, I began to get a cold, Today was roasting hot, yet i was wrapped up in bed shivering, Also had major headaches + diarrhoea. Wednesday: Ok, I forgot to mention, During Monday up until now i have totally lost my apatite, I've merely had a couple of bananas since Monday. Okay, where was we, Wednesday, Today i start feeling a little better, I went back to work (I work 2 shifts per day afternoon shift + night shift) I felt fine up until i had a nap in between my shifts and woke up to go to night shift, I had awful sharp pains in my stomach, Felt extremely weak and had no energy what so ever) I still go to work however. When i get home, i thought maybe i should just force feed myself, so I ate alot of stuff. Went to bed... actually had a decent night sleep instead of the 3-5ish hours I've been having. Thursday: Wake up feeling fine and dandy, Again up until the night shift, been feeling sick all night, After my shift i get home, stuck my head down the toilet and I've been sick, Just once So hey, I hope you enjoyed my weeks diary, and I hope you can give me some advise? I mean, should I just kill myself now? just kidding Oh my bad, Where I put View here: I forgot to go back and add a picture View here : http://img11.imageshack.us/img11/8994/lump.jpg  more

Resolved Question: What Do you think it was?

So my Nana lives in a bad community,Pretty much a small town Filled with old people,The kids that live there are all bad,And they have a bunch of feral dogs in the community.so,One day my Nana's flowers are missing they had been riped out of the ground was it the kids or a dog?  more

Open Question: Anyone Have Any Sex Tips? I'm Lost! :(?

I work pretty hard so it kind of takes it's toll. In the office I can be working over 5 hours a day on the go. My girlfriend of 4 years and I used to have a good sex life but things have taken a turn for the worse as I've just no energy in bed at night. Yesterday, I went to my GP and he prescribed me Pfizer Viagra. I was so embarrassed when he wrote the prescription that I couldn't wait to leave the clinic and get home. It said on the directions leaflet inside to "take one as required" but it doesn't specify how one should take it. So, I slipped it into my girlfriends glass of wine when she used the bathroom. I waited 3 hours for her to get aroused but at 2am, she fell asleep on the sofa. The word "take" could mean so many things, it doesn't say if I/my girlfriend should swallow, snort, smoke, inject or stick it up my anus as a suppository? Maybe I'm supposed to crush it up into a fine powder and put it in my eyes for all I know or maybe they mean I'm supposed to take it with me...I'll just stick it in my pocket and "take" it to bed with me as far as my knowledge on this topic extends. n00b question I know Guys I gave it to my girlfriend first because it could of made me sick  more

Resolved Question: ex boyfriend problems again?

I work with my ex. We really liked each other, but i just wouldn't 'put out' until we were completely official, he ended it the week after i refused to go upstairs with him. Now he's with someone else. I work with them both. He's got a reputation for being a sleaze since me. She still likes him. Eurrrrgh, I just don't know what to think. I've never really liked the girl, find her very arrogant, plus she did the same thing to my friend so I had a bad impression of her. But I am being normal with the girl because I don't want to look like an idiot - i have no real reason to be p-issed so. But i feel like rubbish, she's so pretty and nice and everyone loves her. Can imagine his friends saying 'oh she's way better than that other girl' Help? oh and please don't tell me it's none of my business. i know it isn't, but it's still weird and you have to have been in the situation to understand the feeling.  more

Resolved Question: Should I call the doctor? (diarrhea) sorry. ><?

Sorry for this post. But I'm debating whether or not to call the doctor. This started Tuesday shortly after I woke up. It was pretty bad that morning and tapered off some that afternoon, but still continued, just no where near as bad. I took Pepto, and nothing. It didn't even put a dent into it. Wednesday comes same pattern. I was very lethargic both days, and pretty much spent it in the room or in the bathroom. Didn't eat much. I also started running an ever so slight fever Wednesday off and on, no higher than 99.3. I finally gave in and took Imodium AD. It solved the problem or so I thought. I had an small meal last night, applesauce and some bread. I ordered rice, but wasn't hungry for it, so it's still in the fridge. This morning I felt well enough to go for a jog, but had some lightheadness afterwards. Lots of gas and bloating, but the Immodium was still working. I didn't take anymore because I thought I was done with it. Well, fast forward to this afternoon, and the diarrhea is back! I've been running a slight fever again, hovering between 98.8 and 99.1. I also have not had much of an appetite the past few days either. Other than the lack of appetite, slight cramping, and the stomach issue, I feel fine. Should I call a doctor and set up an appointment or just take more Imodium?  more

Resolved Question: When is the best time to take up and relay the lawn?

It is in a very bad way with weeds of clover, dandelions, coltsfoot, daisies and buttercups. Looks pretty in a sort of wild and wonderful way but I'd really like to take it up, rotovate & weed kill and then re-turf. It is a plot about 25ft long by 10 ft wide.  more

Resolved Question: Did anyone see Embarrassing Bodies Channel 4 Programme on wednesday 1st July?!?

I am pretty annoyed, they showed a woman who was near 60, saying that she feels her boobs have sagged/deflated and her nipple is too high. When you actually saw them they were pretty damn amazing, something I could only dream of. She also stated she has had a reduction when younger. I could not see anything wrong with her breasts what so ever and Im sure even a young twenty something would want the pair she has got. Anyway my point is that it was agreed she could have this operation/solution injected to make them perkier and she would have quite a few of these treatments. Im not sure if its at the nhs cost but Im still annoyed, I was expecting the doctor to say that actually there was very little wrong with her boobs, but they didnt, and Im annoyed that a nearly 60 year old is complaining about something that is pretty stupid in the first place when theres nothing actually wrong and she needs to look at other womens boobs before she moans about her own. Just made me mad that time was wasted and im sure its made other ppl feel bad about there own cos they dont look like that!! Yet there was apparantly something wrong with them?! I think if you go on the channel 4 website you can watch last nights episode! Grrr It made me mad!  more

Open Question: I'm contemplating getting a Brazilian before I go on holiday? How long do they last?

I've never had one before. I guess it will hurt pretty bad the first time, but I'm okay with pain. How long do I have to wait before I can go swimming and stuff? And how long do I have before hair starts growing again? Sorry for the plentiful questions... thanks for answers.  more

Open Question: can someone help me here?

apparently my English was bad but not now I hope.lol Thing is I am told I am pretty but don't believe it.yesterday I was in a coffee shop with a friend,the older manager kept looking at me.I sat down.then he sat opposite with hios tea and kept making eye contact with me.why was this??  more

Open Question: Tattoos and Religion? Some opinions needed please!?

I already have a tattoo of a four leaf clover design on my left lower hip. I would like to get something else but am having a hard time picking something out. I want it to be meaning full but not too tacky. I wanted for a while the infinity sign just below my neck in between my shoulders (pretty design, not just the normal 2 circles). I have now found an Egyptian cross that I love (On the top it is a heart instead of the normal circle and at the top point it has a star and in the middle it forms an infinity sign). The cross obviously means life, the heart love and the star hope. I love the idea but I am catholic and I have no idea if that would be some sort of against my religion? I want it in the same place so that the cross part is just below my neck in between the shoulders (not to big) but I do not want to offend anyone in my family or church. Good, bad idea? (For people who obviously like tattoos). Is this tacky? (Again do not answer if you already hate tattoos to begin with). I really want one that shows but I can cover. The only way you see my other one is if I'm wearing a bikini which is not often where we live. I wanted one on my foot but that also now seems like the more popular place for girls. Thanks in advance! http://www.tattootribes.com/multimedia/110/life.jpg http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2002/2360010142_5a156d002e.jpg?v=1206407936  more

Open Question: embarassing problem :S?

right i got my school prom tomorow and im taking my girlfriend :) we hold hands a lot but it gets pretty bad wen my hands start sweating! i cannot stop them and its reli annoying/embarassing. I really wanna get it sorted for the prom tomorrow cos its kind of embarassing!!! any suggestions please??? thanks! just to add im not really nervous around her, my hands are sweaty anyway - but now its more important they arent if you get me!! :S  more

Open Question: i think im a bad kisser help!!?

okay so im pretty sure i must be an awful kisser i was on my first date with my first boyfriend i asked him to go to the movies with me (im moving away soon so i wanted to see him before i left) and when we go to the movies and he goes to kiss me it felt awful and i think it was my fault...it was my first kiss lol he didn't really pull away but after wards he asked me if it was my first kiss (which probs means i was bad) though he did kiss me again at the end of the movie...but does this mean im a bad kisser?? all of my friends say it was natural to them so will i get better or is it one of those things where you have it or you don't?...(im really sure it was my fault the kissing was bad)  more

Open Question: Should i tell him the whole reason?

Im going into hospital tomorrow and i was just out two days ago. Last night was pretty rough i fainted because of the pain and i rang the guy i love, he rejected the two calls. he does this quite alot, not answering calls or just sending msgs to me. i think its what 20 year old guys do lol. i always ring or txt him first. i was so caught up last night that a few hours later i rang him and said he never rings or txts, and he fell silent and said that he has alot of things to deal with. i understand and i know i should give him space, i realise that now. but last night, i was just so sore and i needed his voice. i wish i could apologize to him but i dont want to tell him the reason why i brought it up, he doesnt call which is half the reason but it was the pain that just got me frustrated. i dont think i should tell him or about the appoointment tomorrow, id love to speak with him because his voice is a comfort and im so nervous about it. he has an important day at work tomorrow so he needs to focus,if i dont tell him though im afraid we'll be on bad terms. should i tell him before tomorrow? i dont know because he said that he had written me an email tonight and he'll send it in the morning.. i dont want to be on bad terms, should i tell him before he sends the email so he knows the reasons? i dont want him to lose focus on tomorrow though he knows about the appointments but not the one tomorrow because its spur of the moment and he wont answer his phone  more

Resolved Question: Trouble for bunking college for 2 weeks ?

The headteacher guy just called mum and told her they haven't seen me in college and she's pretty pissed. I gotta see him tomorow and I'm nervoussss because he isn't exactly nice guy he's pretty harsh :/ lol. Iv been bunking cos of late courseworkvthat was supposed to be handed in a while back and I felt bad and scared for not getting it done so I didn't come in ( I know that makes it worse tbh :( . Also I've been in and out of sickness and I'm worried about my health so I made few hospital appointments and check ups but I'm scared if I tell him this he won't keep it confidential ? I don't want them to know at all :( I'm not sure what he'll do :,( Not the headteacher . The head guy of our year I mean **  more

Open Question: what do you tihnk of this as a preface for a book (14 years old)?

The bland grey walls seemed brighter than usual today. Possibly due to the fact that it was technically the first day of spring (even though I can hear the clamber of hail beat down onto the windows at this very moment). However its most likely due to the fact that today happens to be my birthday. Im pretty sure that this is the worst birthday of my life. Either this or my 4th birthday. I remember it well, the peanut butter cake shaped like a race car and the striking red and blue balloons crowding up the garden. My specially picked out superman costume was the best part of course, but the fact that Lily Andrews, the girl next door (ironic, I know) not only bothered to come, but also came in a Cinderella costume was pretty good to. But then it started to go wrong. Firstly an ‘out of the blue good old Washington thunder storm’ decided to stop by. Then of course the hired clown insisted we go inside to watch his performance. So as Harry the clown (as he liked to call himself) waved balloons in the air and making shapes which supposedly looked like giraffes, everyone was completely bored, one kid fell asleep if I recall. Then all of a sudden the clown ordered me to go up in front of everyone. And so I hesitantly tip toed my way past the other guests until I reached the ‘stage’. Harry had a heavy amount of makeup on and bright red wig on top of his greasy bald patch. You could see in his eyes that his smile was literally painted on and that he had obviously had something go terribly wrong in his life for his job to be a clown. He attempted to do magic tricks on me and started flying custard around the room. Of course his trick had gone wrong, resulting in custard stained on my Superman costume. I was devastated. He had ruined my costume; therefore ruining my entire party. I locked myself in the toilets and didn’t come out until 3 hours later when I was sure every had gone. But no, I think today beats my 4th birthday since this is my first, and certainly not my last birthday in prison.  more

Open Question: Smooth hair for summer?

Hellooo! Right, my hair is pretty damaged from dying and stuff... soo if i leave it to dry naturally it feels rough and frizzy and brittle. However, once straightened it is pretty sleek, smooth and shiny. In the summer though, it is so bad to straighten it every other day.. so are there any really really really good sprays/tecniques/tips/treatments to keep hair moisturised, repaired and less frizzy!? Thanks guys! :D post links if you want me to answer your questions! xxx  more

Open Question: Could a dentist maybe answer me?

Could a dentist maybe help? Hi, im hoping maybe a dentist could give me an answer or maybe someone who has had a similar experience. Please NO silly answers as i am pretty upset about this,and just desperatly need some advice. Firstly im 34 weeks Pregnant , so i dont know if thats anything to do with my symptoms. But for the past 4 months i have been experiencing pins and needles, tingling sensations, in my tongue, it also feels as tho it is burned soemtimes and if its swollen (even tho its not) I have a thick green colour coating at the back of my tongue aswell!! I also have a history of grinding my teeth quite badly, which i dont know if it could be connected! I have been to my dentist 3 times about it, who just keeps brushing me off! My GP tested my bloods for vitamin deficiancy's which all came back ok, except my iron that was a little on the low side, but nothing drastic. My father has geographical Tongue, which he has had since he was a small boy, but he has no pain with his! I am getting quite distressed about this, as i feel that no one actually believe how bad it is. I am wondering if maybe my grinding at night, is actually making me bite my tongue? Or if its Burning Mouth Syndrome? I went to the dentist on Monday and she fitted me for a mouth guard to wear at night, and i told her that the filling i got done a few months ago, still doesnt feel right, It feels quite rough and a horrible metalic taste, she said it looks very shiny? What does that mean? I just feel im at a dead end, and just need a bit of reassurance. Sorry for going on. xxx  more

Resolved Question: Could a dentist maybe help?

Hi, im hoping maybe a dentist could give me an answer or maybe someone who has had a similar experience. Please NO silly answers as i am pretty upset about this,and just desperatly need some advice. Firstly im 34 weeks Pregnant , so i dont know if thats anything to do with my symptoms. But for the past 4 months i have been experiencing pins and needles, tingling sensations, in my tongue, it also feels as tho it is burned soemtimes and if its swollen (even tho its not) I have a thick green colour coating at the back of my tongue aswell!! I also have a history of grinding my teeth quite badly, which i dont know if it could be connected! I have been to my dentist 3 times about it, who just keeps brushing me off! My GP tested my bloods for vitamin deficiancy's which all came back ok, except my iron that was a little on the low side, but nothing drastic. My father has geographical Tongue, which he has had since he was a small boy, but he has no pain with his! I am getting quite distressed about this, as i feel that no one actually believe how bad it is. I am wondering if maybe my grinding at night, is actually making me bite my tongue? Or if its Burning Mouth Syndrome? I went to the dentist on Monday and she fitted me for a mouth guard to wear at night, and i told her that the filling i got done a few months ago, still doesnt feel right, It feels quite rough and a horrible metalic taste, she said it looks very shiny? What does that mean? I just feel im at a dead end, and just need a bit of reassurance. Sorry for going on. xxx  more

Resolved Question: Do you think that the hysteria around celebrity death is the norm these days?

What I mean is.... is it normal that we should have such public mourning of celebrity death? I'm pretty sure we never used to. People hated Jade Goody, but when she got cancer and was going to die she was all over the media and everyone was talking about her like they knew her. When Wacko Jacko (RIP) dies, everyone is on the bandwagon again? Is it a case of media brainwashing? The current global climate meaning people are jumping on bad news? Or something else?  more

Resolved Question: Relationship issues: Regaining Trust?

OK So I met my girlfriend about a year ago, at a party we were both proper drunk, but we had so much good clean fun, and in the morning we all went to a park and it was lovely blah blah blah.... We live pretty far apart, I'm in london, and she is from surrey, so we start meeting up once a week half way, having brilliant nights and days out, and getting closer and soon enough we're in a full blown relationship, she's staying at my house ALL the time, things are great but there is a problem with drinking, I have to carry her home most nights, which I didn't mind I thought it was funny... She was unemployed, and I was working hard all the time, so that made her look forward to going out because she didn't get out much otherwise, but now realises that it's best to get out and about working and you appreciate going out drinking more.... ANYWAY To cut a long story short, I have been through some hellish experiences because of my girlfriends drinking (hospitals, gone missing, worried to death, having to sober myself up to find out where she'd gone, mystery cab rides etc...) but I forgave her for all that, and we carried on with our beautiful relationship... I asked her not to go out drinking for her friends birthday, because I knew it was too soon for her and she was on the road to recovery, and she agreed... Then a few days later, It was the night before our holiday and my friend invited me to the pub, I felt damned if I did go, and damned if i didn't go because I really needed to see my friends who I hadn't seen for so long, so I thought I'd be cheeky and go for one pint, and that's all it was an hour in the pub the night before our holiday to see a much needed friend. When we were on holiday she went down my phone and found out I'd gone, and dumped me on the spot. NO FUCKING AROUND. She hates lying which I can appreciate, but I didn't think I'd done anything that bad, we went through the whole tearful saga of that on our first holiday. So it seems the trust I had she was whittling away at the beginning of the relationship and the trust she had was shattered when I lied to her, so there is very little trust in our relationship at the moment and I need help on repairing it. I REALLY LOVE MY GIRLFRIEND, BUT I WANT TO KNOW HOW WE CAN TRUST EACH OTHER AGAIN PROPERLY!?  more

Resolved Question: Why are my fish frantically swimming and rapidly breathing?

I have two goldfish in a 20 gallon tank. In the past two days, both had severe bacterial infection. I changed the water, filter, and used ampicillin to cure them. One fish was on the verge of death, but somehow lived. They were totally back to normal yesterday, completely cured. Today, they were swimming at the bottom again and showing signs of disease. I did a ph and ammonia check and found that they were pretty bad. ph - 6.0 and ammonia - 4.0. Both fish "looked" fine, but I still did a partial change which brought the level down to .50 for ammonia. Also, I kind of messed up doing the ph balancing. First it was perfect, then I messed up, and now it's okay. Basically I changed the ph level rapidly back and forth in the course of an hour. I know I messed up. On top of that, I put a lot of stress free solution and ammonia and chlorine cleaners. HEAVY AMOUNTS. Also, HEAVY AMOUNTS OF SALT. Are my fish suffering from chemical poisoning, ph stress, or ammonia? They are swimming pretty athletically back and forth, to and fro, and up an down. They bite at the surface even though there is no food. Also, they are not focused on one activity and they rapidly change what they are doing. No noticeable disease on them, too. Please help me fish experts! What's wrong? What should I do?  more

Voting Question: Is there any possible way to fix a scratched video game disk?

There was an earthquake and I was playing play station 2. My ps2 fell and my game disk was in it...I think it scratched it up pretty bad. I've tried almost everything I can think of. Is there any way to fix it? And I live in japan so I cannot go to any store to buy the cleaner  more

Voting Question: gladiator sandles with small heel?

Help guys! I'm 5ft11 which for a girl is pretty tall and i really want to wear a pair of the gorgeous gladiator sandles http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3323/3422379442_95fd3aec38_o.jpg with a small enough heel or even those ankle boots with the peep toe http://www.coutureinthecity.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/celeb-shoeties-2.JPG any tips on where i could buy some or order some would be great! there is nothing worse than going out and towering over everyone! somewhere that ships to the uk oooh and how do i view those links you copied and pasted if the full web address doesnt come up  more

Voting Question: should I repeat my year at uni?

I am doing a biology degree and am in my secound year. But thing is its my 3rd year studying because I was at another university but changed uni because I was homesick. I commute to uni which is about an hour away. Thing is I have had a bad year last year, I have been badly depressed and I have only recently started realising against it. I have seriously lacked motivation despite completing my corsework and going to my exams. I am pretty sure I have failed this year because I barely answered anything on my exams at all. Part of me knows I could do it if I really pulled my finger out I have just seriously lacked self esteem (still do). I dunno what to do, I am 21 and most of my friends have just completed there degrees and I stuck doing mine. Part of me is board of uni but part of me is scared about going into the real world without a degree. I recently started doing a teaching placement at a primary school and I really enjoy it and I think it could be a potential career but I need a degree to do it. Plus I know if I drop out of uni I will let everyone down plus it will bug me constantly in my head. I am at a stalemate, part of me wants to , but part of me worrys about the cost and fact that I am 21 and I will blackmarked as someone who had to repeat years at uni. I dunno what can anyone give me some advice???  more

Open Question: i feel so alone and despairing good advice needed please?

im beginning to feel like my life has come to a halt. just come out of a bad and messy split with my fiancee of 5 years-he has been emotionally abusive and has completely and utterly financially drained me-i managed to get debt help but my credit ratings ruined for ages. im so upset i thought he loved me but we had a flat together-im now at my sisters and im still supporting him in the flat til he gets somewhere else. im so hurt-he has barely called since the split-i have called a couple of times to check for bills etc but thats it-its almost like he doesnt give a damn. he was pretty much likt this the last 4 years-cold and emotionally void. what the hell is wrong with me. im a good person but feel like a sack of crap. i feel noone likes me. i cant see much hope for the future-all i wanted was someone who loved me for me who in the future is going to want to be with someone whos financially ruined ? i feel like crap  more

Resolved Question: Why can't I feel anything during intercourse?

Right I'm going to try and go into as much detail as possible, cause I've looked this up on google and never really found the right answer for me. Basically I've been sexually active since I was 16 (I'm 20 now). I've had sex with 4 people in total. And yeah I can get an orgasm through clitoral stimulation, but that's not what I'm interested in. I want to know why I can't feel anything when I actually have sex. To be honest I don't think it's psychological because I've never been stressed about it until recently, it's just been one of those things. But since I've been with my current boyfriend for just over a year I've been feeling bad about pretending to enjoy myself when I'm not. I do enjoy oral sex but that really is the extent of it, like I'm aware that there's something inside me but other than that it's nothing. And I wouldn't say it's because the people I've been with are too small or anything, because I know they were at the very least average. And I wouldn't say there's any problems with like, too much space down there with me, if anything I've been told that I'm pretty tight down there... Ugh this is getting way personal. But yeah like I said, I know what works for me when it comes to clitoral stimulation. And I have tried to see what works for me otherwise but nothing does at all. So any advice that doesn't involve "his cock is too small", "you're too wide", "you need to figure out what works for you" or "something that happened in your childhood is stopping you enjoying sex" etc etc, would be awesome. So help! (: For the record, I'm bi, I already know that. But I do appreciate the advice. And to others, don't be a jerk, this is a genuine question, just like everyone else's.  more

Voting Question: i need help with my creative writing coursework?

The deadline is tomorrow and i need help to conclude my writing this is what i have so far: With the straps of my bag resting heavily on my shoulders, I took a slow, deep breath and turned to face the sharp winter’s breeze; blowing around my weary face. Another hard day was finished and I couldn’t wait to just get home and relax. It’s not like there was anything or anyone waiting for me, I was just relieved to finally be out of that dingy office. I rarely enjoyed the long walk home, especially on days like this but today was an exception. The golden-brown leaves lay on the wet grass and were swept up like a whirlwind by the sudden gust of air. The normally busy park was now dormant until another day as the sun set slowly, and its orange glaze coated the park and the surrounding flats. The park seemed to come alive as the sunlight faded. Squirrels appeared from nowhere and scurried across the park between the larger trees. The birds’ song is usually masked by the buzz of cars and people going about their everyday life. But all of that was gone now; it was beautiful. It took me only 10 minutes to walk the breadth of the park because I lacked that lethargy in my walk. The mountain of steps however, seemed to take an eternity to ascend; I had to stop twice to regain my breath. The tiny drops of rain seemed to tickle my skin as they gathered to form bigger droplets and run down my arm. It rained hard last week. I was completely drenched; I had the sniffles for weeks. I noticed a doorway which was sheltered from the ever increasing rain. Out of my left inner pocket I reached for my Mayfair Lights, pulling out the last one and discarding the newly crumpled packet on the floor. As I placed the cigarette between my lips and lit it I heard a soft, yet crisp voice appear from over my shoulder. “You shouldn’t smoke kid”; his voice seemed to reverberate through my mind as he placed his hand on to my left shoulder. I turned and; “Dad? How are you?” I asked. “Crap weather nowadays ‘ey? I’m not too bad son, yourself?” As the conversation unfolded the rain ceased and the skies cleared. We began to stroll through the winding streets of the town centre, enjoying each other’s company. My dad never visited me very often so I was glad to spend this small amount of time with him. “I’d kill for a coffee and a biscuit.” He said. “I hear Horse Pond café is open till seven.” I used to remember the absolute delight of being taken there as a small child, we were good friends to the family; the Jenkins. They had a young daughter called Jenny; she was only a few years older than me. She’s moved away now though. There is just Mrs Jenkins left nowadays. The poor woman’s all by herself now, after Alf passed away two years ago. I hear business is still pretty good nevertheless. Her peanut butter sandwiches sell out in twenty minutes on a Saturday morning. maybe end with the dad dying? then its as if he is speaking at a funeral and he returns to his seat? i dont know but help please :)  more

Voting Question: I feel like im on a continous spiral downwards...?

Life as a teenager was good, now im 21, I think Ive failed my last year of Uni, I have no work experience, I have no money, I feel unhealthy, I drink/smoke alot, ive packed on a few pounds over the last year, and I no longer have the will power/drive to do things like go to the gym or what not. I dont have many friends at my current Uni, and the ones i have arent really friends there just self minded idiots. I have a gambling addiction on top of this, I sleep at silly times like 6 am then wake up at 2pm, I havent had a girlfriend in a couple of years which is pretty much where my depression started, my parents live abroad and think ive passed Uni and ive lined up a job which I havent, as a reward they paid for my holiday to Ibiza in August for my mates 21's, even though I have no spending money and I feel like a failure if I go. I know I dont have it bad compared to others, but I definately feel abnormally depressed. Ive gone from a very active teen with lots of friends/money/attention from girls, to a hermit that sits in my room all day staring into my laptop, go out on the odd occasion and havent got the will power to meet a nice girl, 90% of the rest of the time I lose my weekly budget in the casino, and end up eating soup or whatever. Has anyone felt like this? I try and pick my self up but it just feels like too much pressure and determination which I lack, I say I will change and stop gambling/go to the gym/try and meet a nice girl, but I cant, Ive never felt so low in my life and I dont know how im going to get back up... Thanks for the answers. Madman I feel exactly the same, my parents think Im this good little boy but I have so many addictions its ridulous, weed, coke, ive tried it all, I just dont know how to change, Ive tried, but it never works out for long.  more

Voting Question: Why do i look so bad in all photos?

i look in the mirror and i seem to be fine and i am happy with the way i look, i wouldnt say i am pretty as such just normal looking lol, but every photo i have taken i look dreadful! and always look huge :( which i am not. does anyone else have this problem or is it just me?  more

Resolved Question: it feels very 'unfinished' with her?

a girl i've liked for a while is going away to study for a year. although we've never been official, we were pretty close for a while. i like her a lot and i think she likes me too but she already told me she didn't want anything serious because she was going after summer. i'm not sure how i am going to get over her when i can't seem to find closure on it. i never had her for my own and feel bad about that since i wanted to just be able to call her my girlfriend. i'm worried that i will just be sitting at home whilst she is away having a great time and i won't get over her, especially since i don't want to close contact with her completely. i want to seem at least like i'm not thinking too much about her but still want her to keep thinking of me in a 'future boyfriend potential' kind of way. any ideas?? feeling desperate and sad :( thanks a lot guys!!  more

Voting Question: I just injected bull-shark testosterone directly into my balls.. bad idea?

It feels pretty awesome though.  more

Voting Question: Am I less of a man because I care about animals?

It only seems to be chicks that get reallybothered by animal cruelty. Like a lot of guys can laugh it it and don't seem to be bothered at all. But if I see even the slightest bit of animal cruelty it ruins the day for me and I can't stop thinking about it. I wouldn't say I get depressed but it really bothers me. Sometimes when I'm on the internet aswell I look things up knowing it will upset me but I can't help it. I feel as if i need to know. Like I came accross this video right. There was a description above the video. After reading it i though fuck, I'm not watching that. Ended up watching the video. Well half of it anyway. Fuck. Was worse than anything I could ever imagine. It took me hours to get to sleep for nights after. For like thewhole week aswell i couldn't focus on anything, just kept getting flashbacks of the video. Anyway turns out other people i know also saw the same video and thought it was pretty funny. The fuck? What's the deal with that like. This video basically ruins me and they can just laugh it off. I feel tempted to post a link to the video but i wouldnt do that to you guys. Although I doubt you'll understand what the fuck I'm talking about without seeing it. So yeah, am I a woman because this stuff bothers me? Funny thing is, I don't give a shit about the probems people have. Famine in Africa, couldn't care less. I put this in the Vegan section because you guys probably care. Thanks if you took the time to read that by the way. Hold on, I'm not vegan. Hell I'm not even vegetarian. I had a steak that filled my plate yesterday. Hot pan, 15 seconds either side, nice and red in the middle mmmmmmmmm. Anyway. I still really care, just not enough to stop eating meat. Don't judge me because of it though. The cruelty I'm talking of is not specific to the meat indursty. I'm talking cruelty in general. All the sorry shit that goes on in China especially. I know me not eating meat wont make one bit of difference.  more

Voting Question: i have chickens but have a question?

well we bought 2 chicks which are 4-5 weeks old and my parents put them outside properly for the first time, it is now half ten and what happens about food and water when theyre locked away in the coop? do they just wait till morning when we let them out? cuz i feel pretty bad about leaving them in the coop without water and food till morning?  more

Voting Question: She has a boyfriend :S?

Right, here's the story: Basically there's a girl at school who i really fancy. We talk to each other pretty much all the time and constantly text each other when one of us isn't there. The good thing is that I'm pretty certain that she fancies me as well. The bad thing is that she has a boyfriend who she's been going out with for ten months (and who is apparently a complete t*** according to some people who know him, although that's neither here nor there). I'm not entirely sure what to do now as I don't know whether she's worried about dumping her boyfriend when she may not be sure if i have feelings for her The question is, should i tell her my feeling while she is still going out with her current boyfriend? (And I've had mixed reactions from people i have asked)  more

Voting Question: Someone's outed me in the area I live and now it's spreading around the whole of Sheffield!!! Please Help?

Right, i'm a 16year old pre-op male-to-female transsexual, i'm on a 6year waiting list for Porterbrook Gender Clinic and I fancy girls. Now in October I came out to my family and everyone at school, well actually just my friends but as long as it didn't leave the school grounds and S1(Sheffield City Centre) I didn't mind it spreading, Sheffield City Centre is full of goths and emos who have been pretty gay friendly, plus a lot of them are LGBT and Notre Dame Catholic High School has been a very pro-gay and supportive atmosphere and up until two weeks ago, that's where my sexuality and gender identity have stayed, within S1 and Notre Dame Catholic High School but two weeks back a kid called Reece, decided to tell his little brother who spread it around my sisters' school in the area I live, an area where one of the streets is labeled the worse street in Sheffield and is notorious for gang crime, mainly involving knives and drugs, but nonetheless a dangerous area. In a completely...(details not finished) ...different area of Sheffield, 6miles away from my home, some girls from school have found it a fun idea to spread my gender identity and sexuality about there and this area of Sheffield is labeled the worst area of Sheffield and notorious for gun and gang crime and I'm getting scared now cos this is spreading to dangerous areas, I know I'm lucky it's took this long for people to decide to spread it but i'm really scared, i'm getting scared to walk the streets, also I'm scared my Mum might kick me out of the house if this keeps up, cos she is really homophobic and went balistic when it spread round my sisters' school, she works in this area notorious for gan and gang crime and I'm scared if she finds out it spread there she's gonna kick me out of my house. Please help? What can I do? I'm getting really scared now. Yes, Sheffield, England, the place that invented stainless steel. And yeah, opinions don't matter but i think a bullet in my skull or a knife slitting my throat might cos that will certainly stop me reaching my goal cos I won't be a live to do so. I don't like having big muscle and that, they look ugly and I did ju-jit-su and karate once and I got bored of it. I don't like stuff like that, it bores me, and violence doesn't solve anything, police just lock me in a cell instead or they don't bother doing anything, that's what they've done in the past, South Yorkshire Police are lazy assholes. In the UK it illegal to carry a gun, the only people who carry them either possess them illegally or are the armed forces and police.  more

Resolved Question: Really heavy period and bad cramps?

I take the mini pill, Cerazette. A common side effect of this is irregular periods, and so I haven't had a bleed for months.Usually, I have a bit of cramping and a pretty light period, but the mini pill made the cramps disappear and the bleeding even lighter. On Saturday there I started bleeding without warning, no PMT. It has been getting steadily heavier, I have had to use jumbo tampons and am having to change them after around 2 hours, I usually only use regular ones. Overnight, I use pads and I noticed there were a few small clots. I have had terrible cramps too, I was bent over double this afternoon. Has anyone else had this on the mini pill? Is it likely that the heavy bleeding and cramps are down to the fact I haven't had a period for so long? Anything you could tell me would be fab, thanks :)  more

Resolved Question: Is reluctance ok for a dad?

ok- so been married 2 years. I am desperately broody. I am 24, a dentist and my husband is a teacher.He does want children. We are pretty settled, we have had a dog for a year and we have a 3 bedroom house, 2 cars and generally a good life, We are having some counselling for differences in family backround, but have made huge progress. Basically hubby had a bad childhood and doesnt know his own dad. So after a few months of saying 'not yet' he has just said that he is ok if i want to take my coil out and 'trust God' but he would rather have it there as a 'safety net' and doesnt think we are ready yet. I kind of know that he would be over the moon if i did get pregnant; he is just reluctant at the moment. Is reluctance ok? am i wrong to want him to be as excited and ready as me?  more

Voting Question: has anyone felt like they were more like a certain animal than the human body they were born into?

yeah so well I don't like to eat dead mice but I have other things that so strikingly seem so cat like and no its not an act I don't try to do those things. my personality.. kind of aloof at first but once I figure i like you by you earning my respect(which doesn't always take that much) if my senses say you're ok I'm like an instant friend, something many cats do.. I go to a house with cats visiting relatives or friends and the cats just about notice me right away and hang out with me for the rest of the night(if not abused etc) and when I leave they are looking at me literally no joke with their tails up like hey u were fun I see you. so if I haven't said it yet I believe I am a cat in a human body in some senses or a mix between the two or I'm so empathic(and I am) that I got influenced by one at an early age.. *shrugs* but I was always pretty rebellious but not to the extent of being stupid or bad for my health, also I'm abit lonersome but I like people but not just anyone. I don't hate anyone either. and I looooove pillows and napping when tired. I stay up late and go to bed early(lol) earlate as some would call it since its so late everyone else has gone to bed and early in the morning but not sunny quite yet but sunrise I just konk out like a light, and many many other nuances.. some I can't mention on here ^_^: ps I loove fish(cept for tilapia it tastes like mud) and chicken. I have a visual memory and a horrible short term memory. excellent long term memory, and if I've done something physically I remember it alot better if I did it with words or text. and I almsot Never fall.. and I used to rollerblade often. fallen maybe 5 times in my entire life  more

Voting Question: Every Girl Goes Thru the same thing :(( someone shud have advice...?

Ok. So lets call "him" Bob because I don't want to reviel any real names just in case someone sees. So, what happened was that me and bob met and started dating in a very odd and messed up situation. We broke up about two times before we actually started liking each other. We were pretty close. But there was this certain girl that was a friend but broke it because of Bob (her ex). Bob always talked to her but nothing more than friends. What happened was that this girl kept telling him bad things about me and his former best friends kept telling me things. We broke up about another two times because of this. Summer started and he's with some other girl now. We broke up, but it was only for summer. We talked but i saw that he's just aiming on making me jealous with this new girl that keeps coming up in conversation. He talks to me like we used to (which is a lot) than bam, we don't talk for hours or even days. It's the 2nd day now, and I know i should get over him but thinking about it, i dont know what happened to seperate us, and going back to school in August will be awkward, since we made this promise or at least said that we would probably get back again. What Should I do? It's what i think about all the time, even though im hanging out with other guys and girls trying to occupate myself. :S:S:S:S:S  more

Voting Question: For the ladies who answerd my previous question!! MY ANSWERS?

I am 20 I am 30 weeks pregnant tomorrow Our little one was very planned, was trying for 3 years, and sadly miscarried january last year We are having a little prince, and have chose the name Harry Robert He will be our First baby i dont think i really miss much, i thought i would miss drinking, but really dont, i still fit into all my clothes, and i do the same as i did before i fell pregnant really. I love the fact that i am more confident since being pregnant. i used to be really shy but not anymore. i love that me and my fiance are alot closer, even though we were very close before, and i love all the fuss people make of me and my bump..lol..the thing i love most is how happy my fiance is, and how he talks to the baby and rubs and kisses my belly.so cute.. Our sex life is nearly non-existant..i feel sorry for him because i just dont want it anymore, but i think he understands ! The complications i have had so far-- I bled at 12 weeks, i bled again at 19 weeks, Im rhesus negative, so have had to have anti-D's (horrible horrible horrible..lol) I have a Urine infection and was taken to hospital tuesday morning! was contracting and had to have steroids to mature baby's lungs as he was 'coming' so they thought. SCBU was informed, and everything was waiting, ready for him, but he stayed put thank god...he would of been 11 weeks early !! Hopefully that was the last complication and everything will run smoothly from now on. in general, i feel pretty good..very anxious and worried that something is going to go wrong again, but im trying to relax for the sake of my baby. i have bad heartburn and feel very tired all the time, but apart from that i feel great and LOVE LOVE LOVE being pregnant. i cant wait to meet my little man, i just hope he stays put untill hes ready. So theres my answers, its nice to get to no people and there experiences so i hope you had fun doing it...lol... Did it keep you entertained for a while?? what else can we all do to make us less bored lol??  more

Resolved Question: Christians, how many of the OT moral laws would help society today?

Although supposedly the NT abolishes the OT and we are no longer under the law many of the laws must still be followed: Thou shall not kill Thou shall not steal (sound pretty good to me :)) However I'm not so up for a rape victim marrying her abuser.... (Deuteronomy 22:28-29 NLT) (If a man is caught in the act of raping a young woman who is not engaged, he must pay fifty pieces of silver to her father. Then he must marry the young woman because he violated her, and he will never be allowed to divorce her.) Lots more good and bad but which do you think would help society and which clearly do not? Liberal ...: You are kidding me right? If it was we couldn't have freedom of religion "put no God's before me..." Women wouldn't have nearly as much rights.... for a starter!  more

Voting Question: Has anyone used Driclor for sweaty hands?

My hands sweat sooo much, they sweat even when im cold sometimes. Its bad, it literally drips off my hands and im not kidding...it leaves wet on the things i touch. It can be pretty embarrasing! Has anyone used Driclor for this?  more

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